Let’s Talk About Sex Baby
Filed under: Uncategorized — Nikki @ 2:46 am
Hellllllllo my luvs!
So how is everyone on this awesome Thursday? I was good until it got all over cast and rainy outside :/ Now I don’t want to do anything other than curl up in bed and take a nap, but that got me thinking. Naps, especially with your partner, usually end up leading to sex…so let’s talk a little about sex
Some of this might disappoint you because it doesn’t live up to what your imagination has created about me but I’m not here to fluff you. First off…just because I’m in the “porn industry” does not mean I have sex all the time or are some kind of sexual FREAK. I do love sex, but I work, I own my own business, I run errands, I clean my home, take care of my pets, etc. I have a busy life, I stay up way too late and get up too early. So while I might think about sex a lot and it always sounds like a good idea, most of the time our day goes like this….Wake up @ 7:30
Depending on what day it is I either work, run errands, get my nails/hair done, clean, or a mixture of these.
Joey’s in his office working 90% of the day…except for when he goes cougar hunting at the grocery store, haha.
We finally sit down to relax and catch up on TV and talk to each other around 10 or 11
Go upstairs to the office for any last minute work around 1
Finally get in bed between 2-3
and then pass out.
*absolutely NOTHING exciting about my life* lol
I have to say though, I think we have more sex while we’re at the studio or shooting at home during the day then actually in our bed at night, lol. This probably explains why we don’t get as much shooting done as we should, haha.
Like I said before, even though I don’t have sex as often as i’d like to or as much as people think, I do love sex, but I’m not entirely a “freak in the sheets” either. I’m pretty much a 50/50 split. Half the time I like it slow and sensual with a lot of teasing and foreplay. The other half I like it rough, toss me on the bed, pull my clothes off, grab me, pinch me, choke me, FUCK YES! Asphyxiation is probably one of my favorite things EVER. I also LOVE receiving oral, what woman doesn’t?? I enjoy giving it too but I’ll admit I have a horrible gag reflex :/ I’m not a loud person or much of a dirty talker either, for whatever reason it makes me uncomfortable as fuck. I have no problem hearing it or saying the words in normal conversation or when I’m angry, every other word out of my mouth is fuck, I call people pussies, or cunts or twats or dicks, etc. But when it comes to me saying those things in the bedroom, it makes me feel weird and honestly about all I ever say are things like “yes, fuck me, fuck me harder, I’m gonna cum, cum on me, I want you to cum”. I actually had this discussion with Joey just the other day because I brought up the idea of doing a domination style video. His response “you can’t do it”. Lol. But he’s right, in the moment I can say some things, but saying it on camera like that is totally different for me and I don’t think I could do it with a straight face. I’ll have to work on that and see how it goes though because I really do want to do it
Another topic that’s been brought up a lot lately is toys. I’ve been using them more often in my sets so people have been asking what kinds of toys are my favorite, how often do I use them etc. Toys are great, I’ve always been a fan
The ones I love most are anything that vibrates. I have a bunch of different bullets and eggs etc. Most of which are used almost every time we have sex for a little extra intensity during foreplay or oral, and definitely during mutual masturbation. And I could care less about “pulse patterns” and shit like that, I just want continuous vibration with a control for intensity. I’ve tried a few different non vibrating rubber/silicone dildos but they just don’t do all that much for me because they don’t feel as good to me as the real thing. I use them in my shoots for oral videos and in cam shows for oral play but that’s about it, if I’m going to be penetrated by anything I’d prefer it to be fingers or a real dick, plain and simple And no I’ve never used foreign objects like vegetables, kitchen utensils, hair brush, or anything like that.“Where’s the strangest place you’ve had sex” is a question I get a lot too. Well in the unlocked trailer of a semi truck at 3am is probably as unusual as it’s gotten for me. And it hurt like a bitch. Nothing quite like laying on hard metal while you’re getting railed, ouch! Other than that, I’ve had sex on a park picnic table and a warehouse, and the rest are pretty “normal”…. in a pool, on a boat, in a bathroom, in the car, in a tent, in the kitchen, on the couch, on the floor, and in the shower. The shower I’m not a fan of either, if you’re not in the water you get cold, the water beating down on me is annoying, etc. No fun.
Let’s see, what else is there…..
I’ve had 2 3-somes, both of which were not my idea, one was with 2 guys, the other was a guy and a girl, and through no fault of my own neither ended well. And that leads to the question “have you ever been with a girl and how far have you gone?” Yes, and we did it all.
I think that pretty much covers my sexcapades, lol. Soak it all in
Oh and before I forget, if you didn’t read it on ID or hear me talk about it in my cam show. Nikkisplaymates.com will be moving to NikkiSims.com starting May 13th 2013, all current members will transfer over and it should be a pretty seamless transition. Really the only difference you might notice is of course the URL will redirect to NikkiSims.com if you type in Nikkisplaymates.com, the header of the site will say Nikki Sims, and the future content will be marked NikkiSims.com. Just wanted to give you the heads up in case you thought you were in the wrong place or thought something was wrong.
Now since it’s almost 10pm, I’m gonna go relax and figure out what the hell I’m gonna shoot tomorrow. Apparently the “Be Prepared” video didn’t have a lasting effect on me, lol.
XOXO
Nikki
